The Bar is over. The wedding crunch is here. Here is what has happened in the last couple of weeks:1. My wedding planner (whom I adored) at the hotel had to go into emergency surgery and is not back at work. Another planner is supposed to take over for her.
2. My Rabbi canceled due to a "family event" he could not get out of...2 days before the bar. I've found a replacement Rabbi, hope she works out.
3. My florist has been "promoted" at the florist company and is no longer my florist. The owner does not have a clue who will take over for him, but I'm assured it will be fine. I may have believed her, but she had no idea what kind of flowers they were supposed to be using, nor anything else that I've discussed with my original florist.
If any of my other vendors decide to get promoted, get sick, or have a family event to got to...please tell me BEFORE THE EFFING WEDDING!!!!
P.S. I (think) I have stayed as calm as possible considering everything. But I now see why some brides may get ridiculously overstressed. Here's a suggestion: the only person who is allowed to call a bride "bridezilla" is the bride herself. Unless she is being a monumental bitch, cut the girl some slack. Because while wedding planning is fun and exciting, it is also incredibly stressful. And this comment in no way suggests that I have been called "bridezilla" by my near and dear. Just a general comment on the status of affairs.
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this comment in no way suggests that I have been called "bridezilla" by my near and dear . . .
Not that you KNOW of :)
Well, I've called you barzilla to yo' face yo, but you definitely haven't been bridezilla.
Three more weeks!
i was a chill bride myself--people were like, aren't you nervous? about what?!?!
as for invites, can't help you there. we went the formal route, engraved with the 'mr. and mrs. requesting the honoUr of your...at the marriage of their children...half-past four in the afternoon.
but we had SO MUCH FUN. that's all that matters. have fun and enjoy every second.
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